If youd like to know more about how different Virgo men are from the Virgo women, check out my books on Virgo Man Secrets! He didnt reply my texts at all. He's motivated to help you improve. Even though the Virgo female is communicative, she . Virgo men tend to be very busy guys and I dont think hes blowing you off. He has been busy, as have I. I have my own life and things going on so I stay busy as well, I cant help but wonder, it only takes a moment to send a have a great day text. I dont know what happened suddenly he doesnt want to see even video call are babyjust wondering do he never care about his own child? Dont know what I should do.. Im withdrawing myself from him. Ask him flat out if there is still a chance for you two to work it out or not. Cold feet is a normal thing for Virgo men. he is from Sep 20, he would have a little Libra with him right? A Virgo man cannot commit via online. On an emotional level, a Virgo can take a very long time to open up. Theres no need to worry. He took you asking him about space as you telling him that you need space. He is not aware of his ignoring act. It's essential to be sure he's ignoring you and not having a bad day. You can try to continue a friendship with him and see where it goes but if hes that torn up over it then you may want to keep your own options open. i had a friendship with one and he is married and lives abroad. Your clothes dont need to be expensive they just have to fit well and look good. However, they also want a partner that can keep up with them. (But I am aware that I am not saying things either, because I would already be saying: Why dont you answer my message? Because They feel like they can. What should I do? I am a Virgo Man dealing with a libra Lady and I hate this relationship and I hate narcissistic people full of drama. Hello. He's not afraid to let his hair down. There is no point in trying to control the situation when a Virgo man goes distant. The first thing you can do is try talking about what's bothering him. Be very honest with him and ask him what his intention is and tell him what yours is. Hi, Im a Virgo girl, I cant believe Im doing this because Im usually very analytical, to the point of being stressed. After being apart for so long now, I can move on, but I would have been happier if Mr Virgo and I could have sorted out what this was all about instead, as I did have feelings for him and I know he had for me also. Im pretty sure hes isolating himself because he admitted hes scared because he thinks I have everything together (surprise Im the conductor on the hot mess express) and I always look good. This is a super empowering way to get your Virgo man to stop ignoring you! Please check out my book Virgo Man Secrets. If you feel he is being evasive it is important that you don't fall for his way of thinking. Im so very sorry you got a bad seed. Most Virgos are either fully in or fully out when it comes to relationships. Thats great he texts daily but if you want more with him, hes going to have to step out of the box and do something about it. As much as you want your Cancer man to be honest with you, then be real to him. Unless, of course, he asks you to stay so you two can talk about it more. Virgo is the one sign that a Scorpio cannot crack or break down by employing Scorpio-ness. Remember what I told you how difficult it is for him to express his feelings. Wow, a Virgo/Libra cusp huh? But yet he doesnt let me go and occasionally still textes me. Wont apologize. I know a virgo man for four months. Overall a great relationship expect for his refusal to define it. Over the past 2 yrs he refers to me as your friend or Shrek to his sister, flips his lid if she mentions me, tells her about his girlfriends which he later admits are fakes. We didnt have an argument, we established from the beginning that we would be honest with each other. You dont have to wait for him to reach out first. Texts me things like he wants to see me, but never responds when I text him ok, Im free. I cant understand this Virgo guy born in September 14,1996 same age as me as I was born in April 26,1996. Ignoring him after a breakup. Giving me a one word answer anytime we chat. When he sees you having a lot of fun, he is going to feel like he is missing out, and youll probably hear from him shortly. 5 Ways To Respond When A Virgo Man Ignores You 1. Virgo men have very high standards and tend to prefer women who do not dive into bed with them right away. It was great for me however the next day he didnt text me its been days like this he just doesnt communicate much. I think that your apology and the I miss you text was all you could really do. 1. Ive noticed that he messages only on the days that we have plans to spend time together. Open up honey. Perhaps your Virgo man is ignoring you because you had a big fight and you went a bit over the top and said or did something particularly cruel and now your Virgo man is mad! Virgos sometimes run into trouble by rationalizing their emotions. Give him the space to breathe and forgive you all in his own time. 5 Signs Your Virgo Guy will be back. Dont withdraw from him. I have been seeing a virgo guy casually for 3 months. Once relaxed, you can just mention to him that you have noticed that hes gone really quiet, and you would just like to know whats going on. Virgo men hate drama. In the beginning stages of a new relationship, it's common for both parties to laugh a lot. Ignoring him - the classic (albeit risky) technique to create space and get a guy to respect and appreciate you more. And when we were in the talking stage he was texting me non stop. I dont know how to keep up with him. Blessings! Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. Virgo men are old fashioned and tend to not text very much. Even if hes nice and flirts with you, hes not going to give you any stability or commitment unless things do end with his current relationship. I really did like him! 1. The last time it happened, I know he got pretty angry. But he will also go silent for a variety of reasons. Sometimes this means that he comes across as aloof and cold. He wanted to meet me so we had dinner and talked. I dont think thats worth the risk. He has told me that hes busy a lot and rarely on his phone, we had an intimate moment, he invited me out on the next day for a date and I really enjoyed my weekend with him. However, they can be demanding on their partners. He hasnt said much to me at work and I havent either. A man will often hold back their love for you out of fear. In any case, my friend, why dont he put the things in my face? Since then hes been cold. Im not getting everything I want out of him but it has been progressing as I have been patient and flexible. 164,382. You may assume the worst or wonder if he's lost interest. Of course, all of this depends on the situation and how badly he feels about it. Instead, send him a gentle message like: Hey, I havent seen you in a while, and I would love to catch up. Ouch Virgo and Capricorn arent always the best for one another. If he loves the baby or still cares for you then hell come around but if hes trying to cut ties then you may end up staying a single mother until you find someone else that is willing to pick up the slack that he dropped. The silent treatment is often an attempt to get you to change your behaviour. Geminis often tend to be silent admirers, while Cancerians are guaranteed to put their point across if they have feeling for someone. It can be very frustrating for their girlfriend since she doesn't understand why her boyfriend is being so distant. I have had a huge crush on my Virgo boss for quite a while now,and I can swear he feels same to,his nicer to me than everybody else,we have great connections,long conversations,and interesting chemistry.such that everyone around us sees this and think we are an item,this went on for months and I couldnt hold back my feelings and decided to let him knowhe didnt say yes that he felt same way,and didnt say no either but has become much more open to me and tell things he might not have told a random friend,I decided to find out if he had a girlfriend and he said yes,but I havent really seen or noticed any unusual excitement cus we spend the day together at the office,his response didnt affect how he treated me,everything seemed same,until few days back he told me she was coming over and he wont be available to me for the weekend,he has been a bit distant for the first time..am so scared and really wish his joking and testing meare there chances of breakup with his gf as they are just 5months together according to himI sincerely find true happiness with him. Today I messaged him good morning but he ignored it. What does this mean? He may reply and he may not, but regardless he got the message. He isnt interested enough in you sweetheart. Its likely hes ignoring you simply because hes busy in his cave doing his own thing. Im fine with getting to know him etc. The other reason is because you tolerate that behavior witch it doesnt make him happier either or have any respect for you so he cant fall for you. If youd like, you can take a look and learn more in my book Virgo Man Secrets. If youd like to learn more about the Virgo man, please read Virgo Man Secrets. he was afraid when we meet again i will be in a bad mood again. When a Virgo man is interested in someone, he may seem to laugh at everything they say. If you make her angry, you'll have to work hard to earn her favor again. There are many reasons why a Virgo man could be going silent on you, and the one you least have to worry about is when a Virgo man gets busy he tends to block out the rest of the world and only focus on the task at hand. Before you go all out thinking, 'he is ignoring me', do some due diligence. It was 3 days of spending time with him at his house. Hes definitely afraid youll be emotionally unstable around him which makes him want to distance himself. Im sorry to say it but if he still isnt talking much to you then hes having a hard time getting past that. How long a Virgo man stays mad is up to the individual and the situation itself. It might be that your Virgo man is asking for space, feels hurt by something you did, or wants to change the dynamics between the two of you. We have gotten to know each other more closely now little by little. I dont know what caused the initial silence for 4 months, and he wont tell either of us why. I realize he spends time with his girlfriend on weekends. If he doesnt, then he may just break it off. Again, if you find that hes really pissed off at you, just apologize then back off to let him process it and cool off. He may seem introverted and unapproachable, making him difficult to work with. We had a huge fight about this and the final text I sent was to tell him my side of the story and why I asked if he needed space (I told him it wasnt negative in anyway and I saw it as something healthy, he doesnt agree to this and he already told me this) I got no response to this and finally I asked if he decides agains dating if he will he be friends with me because I dont want to lose him we were friends firstI still got not response. It sucks he doesnt want to text but you cant force him to either. If you have expectation for him to text you a lot then you probably need to let go of that. Your email address will not be published. I met a lovely Virgo Libra Cusp man ( Virgo Moon) online. Hi Sassy! Hes angling for a friends with benefits situation. Even if it's not that funny. In the event that youve managed to do something to piss a Virgo man off, you need to handle it the same way as if you hurt him. Im not sure if he needs time to process or hes done. Things were going very good, he was calling, texting, checking up on me etc. The young lady asked what he did for a living. It will stop responding to your SMS and texts or respond very late. Unfortunately, she asked him about the ED and he denied having it, yet sent me a text that he was done with me because I contacted his sister, then later told me that he had been saving for an operation to fix the ED but had lost his job meantime. I had occassionally experienced the hours or even days of silence, but not this long without a response, so I contacted his sister who I didnt know to ask if she had heard from him recently and if he was ok. and that is life they fall painfully silent too. Tell him that you were scared because you dont want your heart broken. Although they have a tendency to be introverted, virgos still crave verbal communication. [6] Try to keep context in mind before jumping to any conclusions. #1. Unfortunately I missed the call but when we finally did speak I could see he was guarded. Anyway since the fight, neither of us have contacted. It took me a month to not be upset anymore, now Im at home been crying. If you wonder "Why is my Virgo man suddenly ignoring me?" try to slow down. Do not overdo the indirect. He no longer talks about his feelings. All you can do is be you and continue taking care of your child. After I asked him if I was his Wednesday girl he was no longer visible on the online dating site whether he blocked if I can see him or deactivated his online dating profile, Im not sure. We started making plans for the future. You can absolutely succeed with him but it's going to require class, patience, and time. If he doesnt wants to see me then why doesnt he deletes me from social media. Especially as they get more comfortable around one another. This is likely why hes gotten more distant with you. A Virgo man may even be ignoring you if he is not emotionally satisfied with your company. A man who is interested will do anything they can to see you, Virgo is no different. Not only this, but he is constantly seeking the truth, about you and about the world around him. Hi Llala! You shouldnt try to interfere though because if you do, he may end up doing something uncharacteristic such as sleeping with you and then blowing you off thus hurting you badly. I dating a virgo man. Make yourself vulnerable to him about this. A Virgo guy may be giving you the silent treatment as a sign that he feels too much pressure in the relationship. Virgo guys are hyper-logical and serious with their relationship decisions. Even if your comment wasnt something you meant, it planted a seed of doubt in his mind. .for 2 weeks he chat with me regularly ,gave me a name and all that..but then I dont know what happened he start to pull him away from me when he was upset I asked him the reason but he told me nothing. hi, I like this virgo man with whom I have had a telephonic relationship for almost six months now. You can always ask him if there is something you said or did to find out how you can fix things. I have my friend who is also a Virgo like me, we are both the same age, he always writes me with heart emojis, he is cute, he wishes me a good day, sometimes he writes me small messages in quantity to answer him, he is a good boy and we are in an RPG, in which we are both kittens. The problem for Scorpio though is that on most Virgos mind games simply don't and won't work. Yeah, that would make him move as slow as a turtle then. Is it too soon? I will have to hurt him. Hes thinking about it and over thinking about it. I Started dating a Virgo man. If you need more help though, you can check out my book Virgo Man Secrets. They may only answer if you leave it with a question for him to answer. If you made a slight against your Virgo man but didnt mean it, then apologize to him. He knows you, he knows your behavior, and he knows when youre being honest or if youre being a bit shady. Weve had two dates, and one incredible night together. On the night of 4 October 1892, during a heavy storm, Paul Valry underwent an existential crisis, an event that made a huge impact on his writing career. I tried to be strong and make him happy and i cant so i told him everything that is wrong with him. You can text him: Hey, thinking about you, and then leave it alone. A promising sign that a Virgo man is in love with you is if he is not worried about being himself around you. Recently we hooked up through a friend of mine who was married to his brother unfortunately the guy Im in love with has in 12 years of prison time and is getting ready to get out in January of 2019. By earlorg16 March 15, 2017 6:49pm 29 replies. Thats pretty typical of a Virgo man. Virgo men tend to be more self-conscious than others. He might have a moon or rising sign that makes him a bit more reluctant to speak out or tell you what he thinks. When a Virgo man goes silent When a Virgo man goes silent, it cannot be easy to understand what he thinks or feels. I need advice I was talking to a virgo guy and we agreeded to meet and we was liming and had some drinks and i acted on my emotions and when in bed with him. but one time he wanted to meet me in the evening but fell asleep.. that makes me anxious and the next time we met i was pissed at him i was not angry at him.. only in bad mood. If you need more help though, you can check out my book Virgo Man Secrets. Best And its been over 2 weeks since Ive heard from him. If its just you and a good-looking male friend laughing over an innocent lunch, your Virgo man is going to feel a twang of jealousy and will probably contact you very soon! I told him I was really sorry and we talked a little bit, but after that hes quit communicating. He very slowly is developing feelings of some sort for me. He is shy and slow to open up his heart. Just be patient and youll see where things land honey. What Can You Do When A Virgo Man Goes Distant? This will mean he shuts off from you in order to get this. Am I capricorning? I am crazy about him. The other day I kinda chased after him outside of work to ask if he was okay? They like talking via phone or even better, face to face. 5. What did I do? Hi ..I am a leo women n my fiancee a Virgo..we met 2.5yr back..n decided to get married in 6months..n got engaged 2yrs back..both doctors he is into active covid duties..n for past 2yrs we are in a long distance relationship..n for the past 1 to 1.5yrs he hardly communicates with me..we were supposed to get married in last year n due to ac his active duties it got postponed..n everytime I ask him the reason for this non communication from himn he hardly picks my calls after calling like 4 to6times..never calls me back n curtly reply my texts to call me saying jst a no.he always says he is busy with work..n I even asked him if he wants to marry me..n even told I cant take so much of negligence..n his reply was I want to marry u..n there is no change in my decision..but if u really are finding it difficult to adjust u can take the decision urself to end n I will respect that..n now for the next 3months I will be very busy with work..n there is no guarantee of being free even after that.. in an angry tone.n most of the time nhe behaves as if he has no interest..n when he visited his parents for 10days..he hardly made an effort to contact or let alone visit me though my pace is 8hrs drive by road from his parental home.what am. You love him with all your heart and you want to fix what is broken. Im a Leo Sun Capricorn Moon. Now he hasnt said anything since the weekend we both said we had a good time, Ive reached out to him twice and got nothing. Virgo men are handsome, perfectionist types with a sensitive soul and a cracking sense of humor. It might not be what you think at all! Even if he's confused about the relationship, he'll eventually come back. You might enjoy it! He is very observant and probably one of the most perceptive signs in the Zodiac. I told him right away and he wanted out. If he wont have a video chat with you then he is either lying about who he is or he doesnt want you to see his environment (marriage, kids, etc). I do think you should take care of yourself though either way sweetheart. Since weve been dating we see each other once per week, where we speak in person once per week. I wish you all the luck of the universe! When the Leo man gets angry, expect his mood to change dramatically. Im not into forcing or changing anyone. Another reason a Virgo man may go silent is that he's feeling overwhelmed. If he doesnt text you back or at all, it may seem like he either isnt interested or is upset. His mind games will reach absurd levels and he's gonna throw the kitchen sink at you. You need to apologize and let him know that you were in the wrong (if you were) and explain that you wont let it happen again. Get your facts and have a plan in mind so that you don't do anything . i moved on with hurtful regret and i did apologize many times and to no avail, no response back. It wont sit well with his morals. Since then we have not spoken to each other, however, his sister contacts me often and I reply, which also puts Mr Virgos nose out of joint, to the point that he wants us to stop speaking to each other. Hes already made it clear hes exclusive with you so that take that to heart. I dont know if there is a cultural difference between you but if there isnt then there is definitely a difference of how you two talk to each other and how you understand what is being said. He messaged me the next day and when i replied he never messaged back again and he was online but he didnt read my message. Hi Christine! We chatted on messenger. it's over when a virgo starts to ghost you right? There are a variety of reasons that you might ignore a Virgo man: Ignoring him to get his attention. Ive been seeing a Virgo man since Oct 2021. Hi, I am a Aquarius girl, I was talking to a Virgo for two and a half months. After he answered with his normal job and the crowd of people laughed. There is a reason he wont do it and you should see that as a red flag. Virgo men are very sensitive and when it comes to physical romance, they need to be content emotionally before they can get into the mood for sex. That may be the ticket to win his affection back. He might be feeling all kinds of emotions like sadness, jealousy, and betrayal. If you're hanging out with a Virgo man you . Virgo men often have empathic energy, and they absorb too much of what is going on around them. You just cant seem to understand why your Virgo man keeps ignoring you. Tha is not because he is Virgo it is because he is an immature pr*ck! They are indeed insecure people. We ended up having a small convo and ended up meeting at his home, from what we talked about hes very nice, very sweet, and we dont share that many common interest but he did display some sort of interest in me. If he is connected to you through Instagram and Facebook, thats great! Hes one of those guys who always has a lot on his mind. If youre not into that you better make that clear to him. I am still quite confused. BUT, if you cheated on him, not only did you hurt his pride, but he now looks at you differently like youre promiscuous and thats a big deal to a Virgo. He is probably embarrassed that he even did it. Required fields are marked *. A couple of years later, he contacted me out of the blue & we began talking about what had happened and filled in the two year gap, but we were just friends, close friends that spent holidays together but had seperate rooms. Try talking to him and communicating in a proper way so that you two can get along and work through things. 5 Ways To Respond When A Virgo Man Ignores You, He Might Be Hurt By Something You Did Or Said, What To Do When A Virgo Man Goes Silent Or Distant. It's important to figure out the nuances to his silent treatment before jumping to any conclusion. Ignoring him after he hurt you. This is all about giving the Virgo man in your life some space. There is so much you still have to learn about Virgo men and the way they respond to love and romance. Hes more critical of himself than you ever could be, that much I can guarantee. I started to think things I shouldnt. 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