She may even be seeing someone else on the side. Prove you are serious about it by talking about long-term plans. I was going to ask him if I did something wrong, but I held back in order to not look desperate. Now he's gone. He wanted to see me then changed his mind.wth. Secondly, even I am dating a scorpio who sometimes withdraws but who cares , I am going to take it until it reaches my threshold and then i will break it off with him, thirdly , as a leo i am prone to displays of pride and arrogance- the fact that I can acknowledge it and try to be a better person in relationships and not let my Leonine shortcomings define me, so if you are dating a Scorpio who can not control husband baser instincts then please ask him you fuck off , life is too short to run behind weirdos, Fourth of all , I am pretty sure that each of you frustrated girls out here are interesting, beautiful and amazing human beings, remember that when you feel like you are being used. I forgot to mention that he's really not good at communicating anything. It felt so perfect..like I just stumbled upon a soulmate. If he is a fit for you, your Scorpio will be upset that you are upset. Take a look into his full natal chart to gain a more accurate understanding. KrisNick09 (author) from Kentucky on July 17, 2012: I have been hub browsing and it seems that a lot of people are having trouble with their scorpios. 2. This approach may work for some signs, but on a Gemini man, it will have the opposite of the desired effect. I asked my scorpio guy if what he's feeling towards me and he said he doesn't know. I'm going through the same crap. So I have dated a scorpio several years ago, we reconnected. then i try to contact him asking whether he only wants me for sexting ? i am with a scorpio boy , it's 13 months that we are with each other , yes i agree with all , he is so different with all , at first he flirted alot , after few month i fell in love with him & i told him & during the time this feel got more & more . Even ignoring a mutual friend. I have no idea what happened with my scorpio male.he just suddenly changed. If your Scorpio is the type to pop up whenever he needs something, only to disappear again, then stoop to his level - give him the old cold shoulder. He snoring very loud, don't tell him this omg, he sticks his Head up his Tube to not be heard..lol and he refuses to stay over Night cause of this. When they get into something, they really go for it. The fixed signs represent the maximum strength of an element. Also, because he clams up, he'll never feel enough guilt to tell you that he's cheating on you. He seemed to get a lot closer to me the following days and was texting me a lot, but then he went distant again. Please have a spare time to help someone in confusion with scorp man.. be delighted to know some insights.. thank you very much.. Just want to ask for an honest advise. Instead of. However, remember that astrology should be used as a tool to better understand your partner and your unique dynamic, not to define the relationship and its outcome. They are emotional people and express the emotion either openly or keep them buried depending on whether they trust you. But I have a son who was looking up to him. The first SANAI 1 base under construction. This page really helped, Kris. The breakthrough came when someone introduced me to this wonderful, great spell caster who eventually helped me out I have never been a fan of things like this but just decided to try reluctantly because I was desperate and left with no choice He did special prayers and used his power Within 7 days my husband called me and he said he was sorry for all the emotional pains he had cost me, moved back to the house and we continue to live happily and our child is happy too. Ask him if I'm going to see him again said he will be busy for nest 5 weeks. But after a while i realized he loves me , cares about me , listens to me , & my words had lots of effect on him ! violeta_oliveira@yahoo.com.br on December 28, 2016: Hey! Compared to the scorpio where evrything goes down to sex, not many questions..just flirting and dirty talks Hi there I am a Scorpio also a boy. I am hoping he will talk to me soon. Make sure he sees that. So when he is thinking about you, it is all about you. When you are with a friend, get ready to be bombarded with a lot of questions. Like I said its better to move on now because he has. The best advice I can give here is to communicate. Suddenly it seems like he can't talk to me Like he's not allowed. He has dropped off the face of the earth but yet when I do see him for a few minutes , he is great! The guy I like is a Scorpio. How can u fall in Love with somebody else when u still be living with her. They have to prove to me and show me that they are who they say they are. I had my Life he had his own, all good. Scorpios are driven to action by their ruling planets, Mars and Pluto. Nothing serious well so he always said then one night about 3 weeks ago he messaged and asked if we could meet up I said yesthen I didn't hear from him so I assumed he had gotten busy so I just went to beddidn't think much of it. We met at a party, hooked up and then hung out like twice. All is forgiven; the dog can tell the difference between a purposefully placed foot and an accidental injury. They would tell me they'd see me and try to say hi but I wouldn't notice them. He will make an effort to spend time with you. I hate arguments and confrontations and i always try my hardest for my partner to undertsand him better and not hurt his feelings but he is confrontational type and arguments exhaust me. I think Scorpios are very complex people. Then he blocked me! He usually texts me every day but a few days ago he disappeared when he said he was frustrated . Take The Quiz: Is He Losing Interest? So basically breaking up with me. It sounds like you are very concerned about pressuring him/scaring him away. Both times i had to hear from him via email that its over. He's not young, he should know I was a pissed female haha. Anyway, before he explained why he didnt want to come to Christmas with me he just said (I like to stay in and do nothing) like I said my feelings got hurt and I was quiet maybe even a bit distant and cold. He did ask me many Time to come see him at the Gigs but i never went until last June. Just tell him what he has done wrong and you don't want to keep silent with him because of it. I understand that pisces men need their space but if you think he's cheating on you, he probably is. I am freaking crazy about this guy. What should I do ? Never put them under pressure , they are so sensetive . 4 Water Signs (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces): Very In Touch With Their Emotions, It Will Be Obvious When He's Not Interested. Angel Ward from Galveston, TX on July 25, 2012: I agree 1000% And the comment with a scorp's mom in the hospital, there is always some drama going on, that's a great excuse for withdrawal, to distract the sig. Have I lost him for good? While your crush might be a Scorpio sun, his personality might be influenced by his rising, moon, and Venus signs as well. THE MAKEUP THOUSAND-MAN CUT!A GREAT CRISIS!LINK YOUR HEART AND TURN EVERYTHING . If you do that, your scorp will notice with his freakish Empathic ways and it WILL make him want you way more! but still i'm trying to go with flow with him. Avoiding eye contact. Especially when i had fight wih my partner. It makes them feel like they are not important enough to hear what you have to say about how you feel. He's confused. A scorpio man will be faithful only if he is happy. If a person born with this sun sign is taking the time to look after you or getting involved with your problems, then you are part of their inner circle. But whenever were together, I feel he loves me somehow. Like all water signs, Scorpio men love hard and forever, and feel things intensely. Trust issue or what i dont know. He did not talk to me at all . The Scorpio man is one of the most emotional signs. Why?? Be strong and dont let him control you. I guess he never was that interested after all. They value honesty and enjoy being . You may notice the following behaviors in a Scorpio man when he is testing you: He Pulls the Disappearing Act He Asks for Help or a Favor He Becomes Quieter in Conversations He Asks a Lot of Personal Questions He Shares Intimate Details About His Life He Tests Your Reaction to Conflict He Asks About Your Past Relationships He Plays Hard to Get But when I speak to him its just short answers. Do Scorpios miss their ex? DONT CHASE HIM. As a Scorpio woman, I believe theres at least one more reason which is missing in that list: Scorpio Man wants to feel absolutely in control and indispensable. Yes, they do play games , but its just to feel you out and see your loyalty. I can't say anything to him. I hope this isn't the case for anyone, because it says volumes about his lack of compassion for you if he isn't willing to give you closure. We don't know each other that well, so I don't know if he likes me just for my looks, or he actually takes interest in me. While others are mumbling and crumbling and grumbling, he is at his forceful, courageous best. KrisNick09 (author) from Kentucky on February 22, 2013: The only advice I can offer is to remind you that a relationship is a two way street. The Highs. I always have a second thought about our relationship. I felt like it was out of nowhere. He doesn't seem like the type that could be motivated by the lover's thoughts and feelings. I really wish u all well ladies and hope I helped a tad. I have since been on a roller coaster ride and now haven't gotten a text or call for 6 weeks. He could disappeared for about 3-4 days without even telling anything. 6) Why do you care? Recently at work, a scorpio girl was chatting me up. I also think it's easy to fall for them - at least in my case!!! The Scorpio man has a strong sense of self-esteem and is passionate about what he does. Genuine Confusion Scorpio men are emotional guys. I haven't acted clingy at all, and I don't plan on doing so at any point. I am so glad to hear that everyone is having the same concerns. I guess I have to stop being such a Libra (=. But do I have hope? Scorpio men are not easy. how is the best way to respond to text or call after they have been distancing themselves and a little cold. Girls, start dating around casually, see what else is out there besides him. I think the act of distancing himself is more painful than you realize and it probably takes extreme will to stay away. So the time comes to hang out a second time and he doesnt respond to me for like 4 hours after we agreed to meet and then started asking me if he could trust me/if I trust him. You have to understand that Scorpios are intense. That's yet another "secret" he'll keep from you. Oh no, this vacation will be somewhere in the mountains where there'll be many hiking trails and places to rest in nature. Imagine you have a dog. Or he "ghosts" and just disappears. Why would you wait around for this unstable twit to decide how he's going to yo yo again and how long you'll take it? demanding, all this good Things a Guy should have . He had helped me with some work stuff two weeks ago, but then told me how it stressed him out. We both have kids. I have introduced him to a lot of couples with problems across the world and they have had good news Just thought I should share my experience because I strongly believe someone out there needs it You can email him through his email..dr_mack@ yahoo. I KNOW that he loves me - he told me he did two days ago in a phone call and then he didn't respond to my three texts today and I do that damn scales balancing act thing that I hate so much. They don't keep these parts of them locked up without a price, however. I have a ton of gifts I have bought weeks before the break up for he, his daughter etc.. If anyone is going through this; stop, drop and roll. But if we want to be alone don't feel bad we just need our space. There are plenty of respectful, loyal, and honest folks born in Scorpio season, just as with any other sign. A Scorpio man is done with you when his behaviors begin to change. He may not be saying much, but I guarantee he is listening. My Scorpio and I have been dating 3 1/2 months. P.S. Have a life. But if he is unhappy for any reason no matter how minute, he will withdraw and cheat on you--this is the stinger part. So, they can go on for a good while after things have cooled off quite a bit. I got into a heated argument with my scorpio and now things aren't the same anymore. hopefully this is helpful :) I'm thinking about writing one on the ego of scorpio males ;) ( and females!). But actually, they are great observers. The more clingy and desperate you act, the more likely you are to pull yourself . I do this, and I can tell you it really ticks me off when I am creating space on purpose, and someone asks me what's wrong. He needs his Space, alone Time ,escape into his Music after having Stress Times. Nasty comments like " my family comes first " " I can't be with you as I have people around me ". does he has no respect for me as a human being? Not responding to my texts . I'm not going to blow his phone up and beg for him to talk to me if that's what he thinks. Due to Scorpio personality traits, he is introspective and independent. Im totally confused coz he's giving me mixed signals. Even feelings of sheer happiness and an unbridled passion are felt immensely by Scorpions. I went crazy over him, and he seemed to go crazy over me too, and even wanted to make plans for the next meetup before even leaving each other. What does he want from me How would I knw he is lying to me(scorpio) he said he is not over his ex and need time to deal with his feelings. I don't know if he still likes me. People that get deep into head games need emotional control over someone. They tell it all on a website or brood about it. The are great mind readers some might say. But we can add that if that is who you want, there is no one else that will do. It could also mean that he never trusted you or himself and never intended to settle down (have a serious relationship). We pick up where we left off. For example, if a Scorpio starts loving art, that may very easily become his new passion in life. This is so true! I am currently being extremely patient with a Scorpio who is going through some tough times. I have known him fr 8 years Best friends that tend to flirt a lot. And he can be pretty obvious about it, too. He's older too so idk is it possible that he breaks up with someone that he loves and 'never' talk to them again? I seem to be making all the efforts in the relationship . And I can do this over a protracted period of time such as few years. I bet you he will not like it very much and now he knows how you feel. his job is very demanding and unable to come to see me so I am the one that goes and visits him. Be honest cause hes very intuituve and can read you really well. He can't expect you to read his mind, but here's what he might be feelingand likely has been feeling for quite some time. Tsurugi remembered about flashback that he killed his sister and real tsurugi was pass out when scorpio transform into real tsurugi. hi, i'm aqua girl, student 23 yr old. We have had periods of intense sexual conversation and then we lose contact for weeks to months, then one of us will reappear. With Mom's encouragement, we decided to meet in April 2014. It really does sux when you get stung for something so stupid and especially when you've done nothing wrong apart from be asleep.it's extremely hurtful. He might do the slow fade out, meaning he stops initiating contact and when you reach out to him he takes hours or days to reply. I have stood by him knowing how hurt he is. For your number 5 reason he withdraws and decides to leave, I don't think its for lack of compassion. My point is, you may think it came out of nowhere, but he has been keeping track, and something tipped the scales. They Detest Dishonesty Your Scorpion partner vehemently detests lies. What's holding you back guys? Ha,nice Guy. I am completely shocked by all of the responses. I mean we have made so many plans. 6. Everysince i felt hurt and texted him about how i felt and its been 4 days now he has not replied. Should I be calling him or a. I pressuring him I really don't want to scare him or make him feel like I am trying to possess him. Espesh if you're with a Scorp man for sure!! On that note we weren't even a couple so I have no idea why he has taken it to heart or what's going on. Sometimes i fought with him , coz i thought he does not love me !!!!! He seldom wallows in envy or self-pity, and he doesn't happen to think that life owes him a single farthing. I've recently broken up with a Scorpion man. If a Scorpio man suddenly disappears with no explanation, he could just not be interested in you. Any advice from other Scorpio men out there would be greatly appreciated. Again, anyone going through all of this nonsense, move on. What Is A Scorpio Man Like? He is an emotional guy so ignoring him would only get him angry. What should I do? I don't want to tell him because he may think I'm just trying to get him back it really hurts feeling this way all alone. He will be jealous in silence. This might be caused by problems early on in their lives that have made them insecure about being committed to someone who might not reciprocate. Is he testing me or just not interested all of a sudden? both of us want sex but somehow, i started to doubt him and realize i dont really just want sex. Without going into why he withdraws in the first place (more about that later), this is the best explanation I can give you for the stalker-to-stranger extremes. We love each other so much, there is such Trust between us. And our conversation end with quarrel. From my experience (both as a Scorpio and as someone who has dated several Scorpio men), I'm going to explain their peculiar behavior as best as I can. I always give him space even when I don't need vis versa. To all scorpio man out there, could you please explain why is it really hard for you to express your feelings with the one whom you feel somewhat special to you? The Arena Media Brands, LLC and respective content providers to this website may receive compensation for some links to products and services on this website. Scorpio Signs yes he has the most of them. male scorps). She may give you a clear sign right away that she likes you and you are the perfect man, and may not look directly at you when you are together. The weird thing is that I'm on birth control so wtf just happened?! Keep your individuality and don't be needy or whiny. Well, the last thing I want is to be a stress to him. Should I carry on asking him to talk to me or move on . He is very obsessive and jealous type of guy. Here's what . He came way strong and even texted to me that he could see being married to me. If you notice the Scorpio guy getting possessive about you, be sure that he is in love with you. If i do , i fear he may not trust me anymore. Then I get a long reply to my text were he doesn't see us going anywhere in a relationship because I can't communicate and I make funny faces and seem to take him as a joke and not seriously. The sun is currently in your 5th house which is the part of your chart which is all about having fun, it's about romance, and creativity, and children, your own or someone else is. I could never settle for less than the best so I guess I will be on my own with just great memories of him. This year, we finally met in person. Sagittarius woman with Scorpio man on May 25, 2018: We met and he was proposing after 2 weeks asking me if I would meet his family and friends - I have not had good experiences in love and was a little cautious but eventually his attention, compassion, patience and wonderful personality won me over. Well for about a year he has changed. Scorpio intuits the sensitivity behind the facade and becomes intrigued. We are holding back because we want to take in your love and see if ur the right person for us I think but really being a Scorpio is tough. com. I want to add he is younger than me in 6 years, he is 29. Remember there arent only 12 kinds of people in this world !! When we met in person, sparks flew. These guys have the most intense eyes in the zodiac. Wish we will be together soon. How do I navigate this relationship, because I do care deeply for him. Cancer in love is shy, responsive, and empathic. Rated all ups!! I met my Scorpio man in an online dating site on three weeks later and we fell in love within a few weeks into 2014. The very darkest parts of who they are will begin to emerge - the longer you're with them, the more you'll notice. Make him WORK for you, if he wont then keep it moving as he will if it were you. I'm dating a Scorpio and I must say I've never seen men without feelings like Scorpio men. Scorpio friend who ended up kissing me one night, has been gone for 2 weeks. Well, a couple days ago, he texts me out of the blue "hey wife." In other words, he is creating space in preparation to leave. I just recently started dating a Scorpio man, and I am a Capricorn woman. I feel he did this because he was hurt because I shared my problems with others instead of going to him, I know he cares for me? we count on a lot of texts and phone calls to keep the relationship going. If your Scorpio man is distant after intimacy, he may have felt it wasn't what he expected or wanted. We just dating, taking it slow. He is pure magnificence. Give her some space for her to get past the upset. If he disap p ears, it might be your instinct to blow up his phone with calls and text messages until he replies to you. It might seem like everything's fine when your Scorpio suddenly turns on you, leaving you feeling attacked for no reason. KrisNick09 (author) from Kentucky on July 25, 2012: Thank you for your comments, angel115707! Then I said I understand , you already made up your mind. And then. Lying, gaslighting, disappearing acts/avoiding for days on end, and emotionally irresponsible- denying fault or acting unaware of their actions- refusing to talk things out, is just not worth it. Both of which he said no to. We're both show offs that work for each others attention, but sometimes he doesn't even acknowledge me. There are no gentle touches. So, I got so pissed because I was very hurt, thinking he didn't care about me and my feelings to let me know and make sure I'm ok. Of course I understand he was sick and needed to take care of himself but my problem was that he didn't tell me until he was already leaving. As I write this, I see how silly, stupid and ridiculous and wacky I must seem to anyone who reads this. I must say sometimes we women tolerate too much nonsense. Though last week I text him about a minor accident he was very concerned . I told him i just wanted to hang out with him like we agreed and I felt like he was being immature. The Bug came to install a Walk in Shower. No matter how sad you are, be happy and confident in whatever you do and you will soon catch his attention. There is very little I expect and very little that fazes me but the moment I get the whiff of disloyalty I will stake out my game and take him down he will never come up. i met this scorpio guy age 32 online. I never seen this side of him. Travel. He could have met you while he was looking for someone to have fun with, but you turned out to be the wrong person for him. I was hurt because before we started dating he said he was in love with me and wanted to settle down have a family etc. He left his job for something else and he hasn't been the same since . I seem to have trouble with expressing my feelings in an non emotional way, I do not like to hurt peoples feelings or burden them and, can let build up to an point and then either pull away or confront, normally in an an aggressive type manner, because dont really like confrontation. Then he explained everything and I was fine. help, This does help about Scorpios!! I just dont have the heart for scorpios mind games and Im tired of my emotions being played with. My bf is soo hot and heavy everyday and then goes off the grid for no more than 48 hrs every so often, and it is usually cuz he is genuinely busy. Should i stay or should i go. Never expect him to change for you, even if he loves you a lot. i have told him early tht i'm looking more than just sex, but he said he prefers to go with the flow. We never added each other on Facebook but only snapchat cause he likes snapchat a lot. Hopefully you've been having a fine old time lately. The Scorpio man is perfect in every way. They will want to think things over before making a decision. Scorpio men are the intensely sexy men of the zodiac sign, they exude mysteriousness and a dark aura that makes women turn their heads around every time these men walk out of the room, deep beneath the hot and cold surface they project into the world, there lies extreme emotional intensity and burden, these men feel too much which can make them If they keep asking, I either lash out because I want them to go away without explaining that I am upset or I pretend that I just don't feel well. We were fine I thought then suddenly he just stopped calling and he usually calls me everyday. Anyway, we just been talking and starring at each other off and on. My period is late and I might be pregnant. I woke up the next day with him just going off his nut and blocking me on his facebok. But I am telling you.. I cry a lot, he knows but i won't show him my Tears. They are not brave or fearless in some areas such as walking away from someone who adores them. Both times we have broken up it was under false pretenses. He sometimes came by my Place to Visit before he went to his Gigs. I'm not guaranteeing it will change, though. Please someone tell me what to do about my Scorpio guy best friend ! He won't lash out right away. When your Scorpio man displays his disappearing acts, it may be due to many factors - there's a possibility you upset him, but he can get stressed because of other external things. Thats when it all came back to me he did the same thing when we dated the first time but not as adults we have not dated. I dont know what to do? "I care for you, but I cant give this relationship what it needs" You will be fine. They are a little different . Do not Act Desperate and Clingy. I couldn't understand this guy for the life of me but I was really falling for him because of it. It shows his deep love . I told him many times I wasn't a good communicator but he said that's okay. Show her you are passionate and not superficial in your attitude. In other words, if you can't tell which of the first four reasons is the reason he has withdrawn, then you really don't know each other well enough for him to play mind games and expect you to sort it out. During Mom's chemo and ups and downs, he was there for me any time of the day (he lives in Ireland and is 6 hours ahead) and I could call him at any time and he was there. his actions do not depend on just the fact that he is a Scorpio). I felt really shitty after reading his long descriptive text. I know he loves me and he had showed me and he had told me he's serious about me so I dont have doubt about it. BUT i get irritated by his over caring and controlling nature. Yes we take our time doesn't mean we don't care we just need assurance that we won't expose ourselves for being hurt in return. It's quite an experience to see the Scorpio man operate under adversity's black clouds. On the same note, don't let Scorpio's bad reputation lead you to misjudge someone. They feel everything! Finish that house project you've been putting off, take yourself on a museum date, or enjoy a nice long walk. All the time I have given them a real long rope and they have sadly tied it around their neck of their own accord. He doesn't deserve it. And if you don't remember the first few times you tugged on his tail, because his response wasn't memorable, wellthat's not his problem. I said in my emails that I know he loves me too and that he broke up with me out of anger and he should think about it and let me know, but I havent heard from him yet. First, Scorpio doesn't want to be disappointed, so they lay back to ensure the feeling, whether it's only crush or love. I am crazy about this guy but if he keeps it up I'm going to have to let him go. Scorpio is naturally suspicious but soon sees that Cancer's a softy. If he completely stops communicating, he may have decided to cut all strings and end it. Scorpios like to be in control of the relationship. then his txts are so short without endearment. I was almost ready to give up on him until I read this article. He waited till Wednesday and texted 'Hey' I didn't text back I knew something was wrong and I was upset aswell. A Scorpio is full of hidden secrets, kept deep within their heart that they're unwilling to reveal to even those they love the most. 1. Now imagine you're a small child that has just discovered the dog's tail and begins to playfully tug on it. So one of the things I said was 'it's not normal to not be able to communicate like a normal person at his age' and 'i felt disrespected and if i feel that way that probably means he is not for me, so he needs to carefully think if he really wants to be with me'.
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